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But, in practice, this was being widely misinterpreted as meaning you didn't have to work at it, to be flexible, to be kind. To try and co-create some relationship together. Go out with them for sure. Even have sex. Even make plans but as soon as they remind you of your ex or have a bad day or after that 'ping' from a new potential prettier mate comes into your inbox you can just ice them. Or ghost them: just disappear Also, particularly with the Baby Boomers there is a dilemma in what most people want. On one hand they want love, connection, someone 'to come home and snuggle up to on the couch ' but they also don't want to lose their independence and freedom.
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But, now that I have some experience with Tinder, I stand by my original presumption -- it was and is too good to be true. While that decision left me feeling a bit disillusioned I'm usually pretty empathetic in life so I tried to take a different point of view on the app. After further thought it's my view that Tinder is a great place for girls to go to get revenge on the male online daters out there after what Sluts Local could arguably be seen as almost two decades of lies, deceits, and distortions in their own parts.
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