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There's no such thing as "natural" when it comes to dating. If it were strictly "natural", we'd be waiting for women to enter estrus and then beating each other for the right to mate together.
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Why don't you approach your fellow men and make them listen to reason: We are telling you to not just write "Hi. " (Christ, I even put it in my profile, yet those who read it tell me they should be able to say it if they want to, even though I've begged them not Sluts Site to. why bother replying, then? The result would be the same as if you hadn't messaged me at all, except now you're pouty and sour ).
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This particular gentleman didn't turn out to be my soul mate. Yet in a strange way the experience exemplifies some key elements of the relationship scene facing young adults today: We're trying to be open, to build relationships, to find somebody who shares a worldview that reflects similar morals, perspectives, ethics, a desire for growth and, well, other stuff. And we're still working out the details of how best to make that happen.
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